A room the two of you keep coming back to
Not a workshop you attend when something breaks. A standing appointment with each other, held by other couples doing the same thing.
Why this is a membership and not a course
Because the problem is not that you do not know how. The problem is that the week eats everything, and the two of you are the thing that gets moved when something else comes up.
A course you finish. A practice you keep. What actually changes a relationship is not one good evening, it is the fifteenth one. So the whole thing is built around returning rather than completing.
Being in it with other couples is the part that makes it stick. Not because you talk to them, most people never do. Because a Thursday you have quietly agreed to with other people is much harder to skip than one you agreed to alone.
What you get
Live breathwork, once a month
The anchor. One standing hour where the only thing happening is the two of you breathing in the same rhythm, guided the whole way. Sometimes that is a full Soulsation journey. Sometimes it is a tantric breath practice from my VITA coaching instead. Once a month is deliberately small. It is the amount you will actually keep.
The recording library
The other three weeks. A monthly session holds the rhythm, but the couples who get the most out of this put something on between times. Twelve minutes on a Tuesday counts.
Practices for the two of you at home
Beyond breath. Structured things to do together on an ordinary evening that do not need a facilitator in the room.
Something to move through each month
A focus the whole group takes on together, so there is a reason to come back that is not just another session.
The other couples
You will not be the only ones. The same couples come back month after month, so the room stops being strangers fairly quickly. Nobody has to share anything out loud and plenty never do.
One price, everything in it
There is no per session ticket. You are joining a practice, not buying an evening, and pricing it per evening would quietly work against the thing that makes it work.
One price per couple, not per person. Cancel whenever.
The price goes out with the first dates
I would rather tell you what this costs at the same time I can tell you when it runs. Both are close. The waitlist gets them together.
Join the waitlistThis is for you if
- You love each other and never stop moving long enough to be in the same room properly
- You keep meaning to do something about it and the week keeps winning
- You are fine, actually, and you want more than fine
- You have tried talking about it and something still has not moved
- You want a reason to protect the time that is not just willpower
This is not for you if
- Either of you is in active crisis
- There is ongoing betrayal that has not been addressed
- One of you is being brought here by the other
Both people have to want it. Not equally convinced, both choosing. If there is serious rupture between you, do the therapy first. This work is very good at opening things. It is not designed to hold a crisis, and I will not pretend otherwise.
Come back to each other
An hour, on a schedule, with other couples doing the same thing.
Doors are not open yet. The waitlist hears first, and the first group is filled from it.
Be in the first group
Dates are not out yet. Leave your email and you will have them before anyone else. Groups stay small, so the list fills them first.
Your email and nothing else. You will hear from me when the dates are set.